THIs is Future Selfie™:BECOMING HER
Become the Version of You Who’s Ready for What’s Next
A 6 week intentional identity transformation that culminates in an intimate 3.5 day retreat designed to
help you to fully embody your Future Self, capture your becoming on camera – and walk away as her.
The Transformation kicks off XXX (DATES)
The Retreat takes place in Scottsdale, Arizona – February 25-28
Limited to 8 participants
THIS IS BECOMING HERThis is for the woman who knows:
It’s time to step into a new chapter — or simply a new version of you.
To show up and move through the world differently.
To be seen more fully.
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To lead from the version
she’s grown into—but hasn’t yet fully claimed.
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Whether you’re stepping into something new, or simply ready to show up in a bolder, more true-to-you-way—this is your invitation to meet the version of you who’s ready to lead what’s next…
To intentionally shape how she leads, lives, and expresses herself.
And then to BECOME HER: in style.
MORE INFOBecoming Her helps you become the creative director of who you're becoming—translating an evolving identity into embodied reality through vision, expression, and aligned action.
It’s a transformative experience — the process bridges the gap between now and next
It’s where identity, brand, and business evolution converge—turning inner clarity into outer congruence, and future self into present power.
Offers a potent, creative process that helps you see and shape the version of yourself you’re becoming—before you’ve fully stepped into her.
The culmination is a retreat designed to help you step into the next identity and includes an editorial-style photoshoot.
Real transformation begins with identity: how you see yourself, how you show up, and how you lead.
Becoming Her is Designed as a Three-Part Experience:
This three-part experience is designed to help you clarify who you’re becoming—and begin showing up as her now. Through deep reflection, conscious embodiment, and a powerful portrait session, you’ll cross a threshold into the next version of your leadership, visibility, and expression.
The Future Selfie™ Intensive
The 6-Week Virtual Intensive
Live Sessions Begin: September 16, 2024
Tuesdays from 1:00–3:30 PM ET via Zoom
Future Selfie™ helps you bridge the gap between who you’ve been and who you’re ready to become next—by seeing and shaping the next version of you with intention, clarity, and creativity.
It gives you a clear snapshot of who you’re becoming—and helps you begin to embody her now.
Through a guided process, you’ll clarify who she is, how she leads, moves, and shows up—so you can bring her forward in a photoshoot designed to both catalyze and capture your becoming.
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Over six live sessions, you’ll be guided through a deep, strategic process to:
Clarify the identity and essence of your Future Self
Explore her presence, energy, style, and voice
Shape the three Signature Looks you’ll embody at the retreat
Begin living and leading as her now
Bonus Session: Retreat Attendee Hot Seat Consult
An exclusive opportunity for retreat attendees to receive personalized feedback—on styling, presence, or how to express your Future Self on camera. You’ll leave the intensive fully prepared for your shoot and retreat experience.
The Retreat Experience
The 3.5-Day In-Person Retreat — Limited to 8 participants
February 25 - 28, Scottsdale Arizona
An intimate 3.5-day gathering designed to help you cross the threshold. You’ll practice being seen, received, and fully expressed as your next-level self—surrounded by a powerful circle of women doing the same.
Embody her in real time.
Intentionally release aspects of you that are no longer serving you.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
The Future Self Photoshoot
Capture and catalyze your becoming.
A powerful A professionally styled, editorial shoot woven into the retreat experience. This is your moment to step into her shoes—literally—and embody her essence on camera. These aren’t just photos. They’re visual proof of who you’ve chosen to become.
you’ll step into her shoes (literally), capturing the shift in real time — and in style.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
Meet your host + GuideSarah Ashman
For more than two decades, Sarah has helped entrepreneurs, global brands, and cultural icons evolve their identity, refine how they show up, and shape how they’re seen.
From Mercedes-Benz to Madonna, CEOs to creative founders, her work centers on translating multidimensional identities into powerful, cohesive expressions that reflect not just where someone’s been—but where they’re headed next.
Whether guiding a global campaign or helping a founder find the heart of their next chapter, her focus has always been identity.
Because when your work is an extension of who you are, stepping into what’s next isn’t just about strategy—it’s about becoming the version of you who’s ready to lead it.
Sarah helps clients see what’s emerging beneath the surface, shape it into a clear direction, and step into it fully—with alignment, confidence, and creative expression that actually feels like you.
That’s what inspired both Future Selfie™ and Becoming Her—a guided experience that helps you shape the next version of yourself with intention, clarity, and creativity.
Through the act of preparing for a photoshoot, you begin embodying who you’re becoming—and when you step into the frame, the shift clicks into place.
Meet Your PhotographerTina Leu
Tina Leu is one of the top photographers in the D.C. area—and one of the few I trust to capture not just who you are, but who you’re becoming.
She has a rare gift for drawing out your essence and reflecting back the version of you that’s ready to be seen. Over the years, she’s become one of my personal go-tos, and I’ve brought her in to work with many of my clients as they cross thresholds of visibility, leadership, and self-expression.
Her work has been featured in People, Fortune, Washingtonian, and more—but what stands out most is how she makes you feel in front of the camera: powerful, at ease, fully yourself.
Her style? She calls it Everyday Editorial. I call it Vanity Fair meets real life—timeless, textural, and true. Not overly posed. Not overly polished. Just you—elevated.
A Glimpse of What’s Possible
Here is a sample of Tina’s photography
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A Glimpse Inside the Becoming Her Retreat Experience
What’s Included
Future Self Cocktail + Hors D’oerves Gathering
Our time together begins with a potent activation: an intimate welcome evening where you’ll be invited to introduce yourself as your Future Self.
This is your first bold step across the threshold—playful, powerful, and rooted in clarity, intention, and connection. You’ll set the intention to ground your transformation and serve as an anchor throughout the weekend.(Non-alcoholic options will be made available.)
Future Self Fitting Session
You’ll meet privately with Sarah for a styling review of your 2-3 Signature Looks.
Try everything on, fine-tune the details, and receive real-time guidance on fit, accessories, posture, and energetic alignment. A steamer will be available so everything is polished and photo-ready.
Pre-Shoot Professional Hair + Makeup
This retreat is intentionally spacious. Late afternoons and evenings, you’ll have ample time to reflect, journal, connect with other participants, or explore the vibrant area at your own pace. Nearby options include: infrared sauna + cold plunge, spas with facials, manicures, massages, IV hydration. There’s also plenty of shopping opportunities.
Future Self Portrait Session
Step in front of the lens for an editorial-style portrait session with one of the top photographers in the D.C. area.
You’ll be guided and styled to reflect the essence, energy, and presence of your Future Self—capturing three Signature Looks that express who you’re becoming.
This is more than a photoshoot—it’s a portal. A mirror. A moment of full embodiment.
The Future Self Shift Sessions
When you’re not in front of the camera, you’ll move through a blend of reflective and experiential practices designed to loosen the grip of outdated identities and open the door to what’s next.
Some practices will ground you. Others will stretch you. All are invitations to begin living as her now—mentally, physically, emotionally, and energetically.
Closing Champagne Toast & Celebration
On our final evening, we’ll gather for a celebratory toast to who you’re becoming.
This joyful, emotionally resonant moment includes group reflections, “I am now…” declarations, and a powerful closing ritual to seal in the shift.
The experience also includes:
Catered Lunches
A delicious, catered lunch will be provided each retreat day—no logistics to manage, just nourishment and ease.
Optional Curated Groups to go have dinner with at one of the amazing local area restaurants.
Unscheduled Spaciousness
This retreat is intentionally spacious. You’ll have time to reflect, journal, or explore the vibrant Mosaic District at your own pace. Nearby options include: infrared sauna + cold plunge, spas with facials, manicures, massages, IV hydration. There’s also plenty of shopping opportunities — all within a 2-3 minute walking distance.
Shared Moments with Kindred Women
While this isn’t a formal networking retreat, meaningful connections happen naturally.
Everyone here is in her own process of becoming—entrepreneurs, creatives, and leaders navigating what’s next.
Many past participants have left with collaborators, clients, and lifelong friendships.
Post-Retreat Integration
Group Integration Call
A few weeks after the retreat, you’ll reconnect with the group to reflect on how your Future Self is showing up in daily life.
This call offers space to share, integrate, and continue deepening your embodiment and leadership.
Becoming Her is Designed as a Three-Part Experience (alt)
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"Future Perfect was a powerful experience that gave me an incredible amount of clarity. I had been feeling stuck, trying to connect my daily tasks with my bigger goals, but after the workshop, everything clicked. Now, I approach work and life with a renewed sense of purpose and direction. I highly recommend this to anyone seeking aligned clarity around their next steps."
Melanie Duncan - Co-Founder of TRUVANI
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"I came into Future Perfect feeling lost and stuck in my business, unsure of what I was truly meant to create. I was surprised by what it revealed—not just about my business, but the life I wanted five years from now. It expanded my view of what was possible and gave me the direction I needed. The craziest part? In less than five months, my entire five-year vision became reality."
Fiona Wong – Human Design Expert
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"Future Perfect was a pivotal experience for me. Now, four years later, I can confidently say that everything I envisioned on that day has come to fruition, even though at the time it felt like a huge leap. I can also say that I am proud to say I’ve become the version of my Future Self that I connected with back then."
Dr. Tara McCormick — CEO, Innovation House
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Have Questions?
Here are some frequently asked questions (with answers)
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Future Perfect® is a hands-on, immersive experience that’s all about diving deep and staying in the zone. We’ll begin at 10am EST and wrap up at 4pm EST—giving you a full day dedicated to building clarity, alignment, and a powerful vision for what’s next.
Each phase builds on the last, with two brief breaks to help you recharge and reflect before we move into the next section. This structure keeps you focused, engaged, and “in it” for the entire experience. By the end of the day, you’ll walk away with more than just ideas—you’ll have a clear vision, actionable steps, and a personalized framework to guide every decision forward.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more.
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